Friday, April 3

How to express your love in a very feminine way?

Have you encountered moments where your heart feel so much love?

Where you tend to be so expressive with words? Actions? and everythinglah!

But, not all of the time your partner is ready to receive such a loaded of expression.

You know why? Expression often bring along some expectations.

Expectations, overwhelmed our partner.

In feminine energy world, it is likely makes you getting involve and get in touch with your feelings.

Like, you can avoid being extremely expressive by enjoying the moments.

Some of the words that you can use are:-

a) Right now, I am feeling so happy and so in love with him. (by this time some of you will be triggered to let your partner know) nope, do not do that yet. Just tell yourself.
I am going to enjoy this feeling. Smile and accept that you are in love. It is not that I forbid you to express it. But, if you already express it so much and wanna take a rest ..hence.. here you go.

b) Pray For God sake. Pray for their happiness, well being, peace  and pray that they are in a good condition =)

You can express your love anytime but law of attraction is real. In Islam, Allah clearly said that with human. The more you go and ask for them, the more they will pull away from you but Allah is not like that. The more you go and ask for Allah, the closer Allah will be with you but the thing is when you are close to Allah. You will be tested cause He loves you. I'm sorry. But that is the truth. However, Allah wants you to make it. So, good luck. InsyaAllah everything will be fine.

It is also a sunnah to express your love towards your loved ones but the truth is moderation is they key to the peace of life. I mean, excessive is not always good.

In a normal world, my friends would say don't text so much. Do not be so attached to a man. And it is true. Happiness should not be depended all the time on anyone. We just need to accept that happiness is a good feeling and it is temporary good feeling and be thankful for the person who makes efforts to make you smile and happy. Yes, people can make you happy but they are no God to give you happiness all the time to you. Do you get me? Hahaha.. I hope so. I mean they are human. Do not expected them to be the happiness machine. So why do we need to be with someone who makes us happy? Haha. Because happiness is a good feelinglah. Yes. Sure. They will make you happy but also there is time where they will not do anything because they are human same like us. Maybe, they choose to sleep all day or to do something else like joining the charity and so on. Thus, you also have space to do other things :)

Whatever it is. It is up to you to do whatever you feels right. Xoxo not Gossip girl.